I have been seeing a lady off and on that is 12 years older than me for 3 years now. Weâ€™ve both been in and out of relationships â€“ but spend time together when weâ€™re single. It has always been a physical thing, but in the past 6 months, Iâ€™ve started developing feelings for her and wanting to do more meaningful things. Weâ€™ve ventured out of her home for lunch â€“ once, dinner once (and I think she was uncomfortable with the looks we may have gotten) and a movie once. We text, have meals at her house, and Iâ€™ve slept over a few times. I have developed feelings for her and donâ€™t think she is comfortable with the age difference. Sheâ€™s beautiful and funny and I have a better time with her than any girl close to my age. I am 27 and she is 39. Am I crazy?