I have been seeing a lady off and on that is 12 years older than me for 3 years now. We’ve both been in and out of relationships – but spend time together when we’re single. It has always been a physical thing, but in the past 6 months, I’ve started developing feelings for her and wanting to do more meaningful things. We’ve ventured out of her home for lunch – once, dinner once (and I think she was uncomfortable with the looks we may have gotten) and a movie once. We text, have meals at her house, and I’ve slept over a few times. I have developed feelings for her and don’t think she is comfortable with the age difference. She’s beautiful and funny and I have a better time with her than any girl close to my age. I am 27 and she is 39. Am I crazy?